i was born this way

but if you need help, i asked wiki for you



If you are a born leader, clever and pretty, it is just possible that you can be an Alpha female, like someone else you know personally who leads well and aspires to beat the proverbial glass ceiling.

1. Be extraordinarily confident. In order to be an Alpha you have to have confidence in yourself. There is no beating around the bush when it comes to being a leader. So start by meeting and networking with 3 new people each day. You don't have to like them but you will be using courage and this will build up your confidence a great deal.
2. Practice making yourself look good. People are depending on you to be a fashion leader, able to wear a varied wardrobe with elegance, flair and style. This will also make you feel better about yourself.
3. Develop a group of genuine friends. It isn't possible to be an Alpha without having a group of friends or clique that will let you lead them. An Alpha will also stay true to this group and make sure that it doesn't fall apart. That displays leadership skills to their highest degree.
4. Spread the word. When your clique is established, try to make it known - that is, if you want to be popular. You can even think of something "ah-dorable" to call your clique. Do stuff together , such as Friday night sleepovers.
5. Try your best to look your best. Make a good first impression on anybody you meet. You don't have to wear designer EVERYTHING to look good! Just be sure to choose clothing that:
   • Fits you. Whether it's too tight or too loose, it always looks horrible and is flattering on NOBODY, not even celebs.
   • Is comfortable. Avoid being in a bad mood by not buying ANYTHING uncomfortable: itchy, etc.
   • Is flattering to your figure. You want the clothing to look good on you, correct?
6. Accessorize and give your clothing your very own personal touch! Make sure it's unique and completely original. Examples of how you can add your personal touch to them are- a piece of jewelry that you always wear, etc. Be sure that your shoes and accessories go with your outfit and benefit it.
7. Be happy with your life. Who would want to be friends with a person who is in a bad mood all the time? Try to be optimistic about everything and try to keep your cool and not have a meltdown when something bad happens.
8. The alpha female results from the ideals of feminism. If you are strongly supportive of feminist views and admire smart, talented women who can take charge, you are one step closer to become the alpha female. I disagree with using appearance as the only measuring tool. The root of an alpha female is much deeper than that.

you don't have to be a BITCH to be an ALPHA female