My Seduction

usually starts with a thrown off conversation, in god knows WHAT direction, anything to get it started. I have a habit of biting my bottom lip and smirking when the conversing gets good. Not to mention this slight stare i give, looking into your eyes, seeing as deep in you as i can. I normally wear shades to cover it up lol, but once the shades are off, normally so are other things.

But i refuse to give away "How Shuny Seduces" but i will share some other things tho. MentalOrgasm and i were talking about The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. It basically gives you 24 maneuvers and strategies on how to be Seductive. Apparently, there is a "process". Part one gives you 10 different types of Seducers:













Me personally, i believe i am the...well, imma let you tell me which one i am. And don't forget to tell me which one you are as well. *smile* So while looking up the "Seductive Characters", I decided to look up "How to be Seductive", [it amused me a bit]

To be seductive means to be alluring. Whether you're trying to attract the one you desire or you're being romantic with the one you love, seduction plays a major role. Use this guide for ideas on how to be seductive.

1. Step 1

   Get to know the person you want to seduce. Learn what turns him on and what types of things he's into. Find out what his favorite meals are, which scents he enjoys and what things get him in the mood.

2. Step 2

   Prepare yourself to be seductive. Part of seduction is visual. If your girlfriend hates facial hair, shave your beard off. If you have any particular clothing that she finds sexy, wear it. When going out to seduce someone new, dress nice and make yourself look attractive. In any situation, make sure your breath is fresh.

3. Step 3

   Whisper something in his ear. This brings you close enough that your cheeks are either touching or close to touching. You're showing him you're okay with being in close contact. Say something that's seductive and sexy. If there's a physical attribute of his that you appreciate, tell him how it makes you feel.

4. Step 4

   Ask her to join you at a table or to stand outside. Let her know that whatever you do, you just want her to be there with you. Part of seduction is making the other person feel wanted and cared about.

5. Step 5

   Set up a romantic evening. Make or order his favorite food to eat during a candlelit dinner. Wear something sexy underneath your clothes if he's into that. Then, after the main seduction is done, you have a nice surprise for him when he takes off your clothes. Take things slow and enjoy the time you have together.

6. Step 6

   Give her compliments. Tell her the things you find most attractive about her and the things that work when she's trying to seduce you. If she's been working really hard on a project lately, mention how great of a job she's doing. Don't go overboard, or it might sound like you're lying.

7. Step 7

   Have a laid-back attitude. Coming on too strongly isn't seductive and is actually a turn-off. Give yourselves a moment for closeness and make sure both of you are comfortable with the situation.

There was also this "How to seduce Women" [even funnier]

Okay, here’s a basic lesson about seduction for you guys out there: being men, you innately possess all the attractiveness you need to seduce women. He who wears no masks and is in full alignment with his masculinity shall get laid. Powerful words. Still, that’s not the whole story! As much as women will agree to the first part and hate to admit what comes now, learning how to behave plays a significant part in flirting. The “wrong” tenure, body language or composure can screw you big time before you get to screw anyone else. This is why with all the authenticity and sincerity you need, knowing about the right behavioural traits will help you in your journey to learn how to seduce women.

Your mannerisms have to reflect your inner attitude.

Before I open the door to seducer wisdom for you, though, remember that all you learn here has to become a reflection of your innermost being and convictions. Otherwise, it’ll be smoke and mirrors, and you’ll end up pissing your girl off majorly when she discovers that you were trying to pull “techniques” on her. Do not “act” this. BE it. All right, now here we go.

Eye contact.

I find it disconcerting how many people avoid steady and solid eye contact in everyday life, even when they are already in a conversation. You want to get good with women? Start practicing eye contact right now, and I’m talking every person you ever come across here. Once you’re in a conversation with a girl, you want to hold steady eye contact and explore her eyes with true curiosity. They reflect what people think and feel inside. Which brings us to the next point:

Radiate sexual energy.

With a steady eye contact, your thoughts will transmit. There is an energy, an aura, that every person has, and it can be transferred across the physical boundaries of our bodies. If you are sitting close to the girl, perhaps facing her on the same bench (and that’s a situation you hopefully established when you came into the conversation – do not sit across a table, it gives you zero leverage!), and have been building some intensity in eye contact, don’t let your thoughts be about… libraries, bees and flowers or the Ark of the Covenant. This is male-female interaction, spice it up! Think about what it would feel like to kiss her, the texture of her lips (look at them), the taste of her tongue. Think about your breath on her neck. She’ll feel that vibe.

If you’re never even thought about what kind of energy you project, then you’re very likely missing out on an entirely other level of communication with women.

Slow down.

Hectic or quick movements will never spark any gut-level attraction in a woman. Be a lover with a slow hand, a man with an easy touch. Love and seduction are smooth and tender, and so have to be your movements: imagine your movements as one flow – they’re all interconnected, like the movements of a ballet dancer. In a steady flow, escalation is not happening in steps, it is just moving along gaplessly to higher and higher points.

Lower your voice.

A nervous, high-pitched, rushed voice is anything but attractive or even seductive. The real seduction kicks in when you tone down your voice to a croon that still vibrates with low-key energy. In those moments, it doesn’t even matter what you say. I once listened to a girl explain to me the procedures for signing up and paying for a workshop. While she was speaking, I looked deeply into her eyes with calm and desire, and when she was done, when I spoke, it was deep and slow. On the surface, we exchanged simple information, but on a deeper level, a lot of male-female tension was going on.

Establish body contact.

You want to put yourself into a position where you can easily get close to her, touch her, kiss her. If your head is already close to hers, it’s easier to reach her lips as getting up from your chair and walking around the table. Don’t hesitate to touch her legs with yours when sitting next to her, or take her hand when you’re making a point, or stroke her cheek with the back of a finger when she says something cute. Never do so in a clingy or needy way: remember that you are in control of the situation.

Hey *kanye shrug* to each is own. How are YOU seductive? Which character is you? I would love to read your thoughts on this. Someone may need your tips. My only tip: Be yourself.

love and light good people!